Thursday, August 21, 2008

Chinese Culture (7)

Besides, Chinese seldom express what they think directly and they prefer a roundabout way. Neither show their emotions and feelings in public. They rarely greet people with a handshake, though it is very popular among foreigners, say nothing of embracing or kissing when greeting or saying good-bye. Consequently, it is better not to behave too carefree in public, even though you are well-intentioned. Also, it is advisable to be fairly cautious in political discussions. Do not particularly push yourself forward, or else you are unwelcome.

此外,中国人很少直接表达自己的想法,而喜欢用侧敲旁击的方式。从不在公共场合表现自己的情绪或者感觉。尽管在西方握手的见面礼非常普遍,但在中国这样做的人还不是很多,更不用说见面和道别时的拥抱和亲吻了。因此,即使你是出于好意,在公共场合也不要表现的太自由自在。同样,在政治话题上保持相对慎重也是明智的。不要太特立独行,否则你将会是不受欢迎的。

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